Everybody grows up. Everybody becomes different. Everybody changes..sometimes for the worst.

But what are you supposed to do?

When they're your friend you stick by them right? You see them through because, after all, they are supposed to be your best friend. But somewhere down the road your best friend loses themselves. So then, being the great friend you are, do you rope them in? Bring them back? Tell them how extremely different they've become? And then you question..is our friendship still strong enough to withstand this change..this total wipeout of someone you thought you knew?

Then again..you stuck with them for awhile. Made many excuses. But in the end they lost themselves, they chose to be different. Is it all that bad that your friend let themselves go? Your answer? Well i don't have that but..my thought is that in the end it's no longer your decision to rescue the person you once knew, just hope that when they finally pull their head out of their fake friends ass, they'll realize that you were it all along. You were there when no one else was. And if it's a legit friendship, you will always find eachother.

**Bea**